You’re not quite sure how or when it happened. You used to have so much passion in bed, but suddenly your sex life just isn’t what it used to be. By 10 p.m. you’re more interested in Master Chef Australia than in a steamy session with your partner. Even when you do work up the energy, sex feels so…predictable. The excitement and the passion are missing.
But, you like sex – a lot. And you love your partner. So what’s happening? Many sex therapists believe that this is the result of all kinds of emotional barriers ranging from poor body image to boredom. However, the good news is that you can get beyond these and reconnect with your sensuality.
Have fun experimenting, enjoy it the sexcare way with, say, sexual products.
Enjoy each other.
Have a bath together; cuddle on the couch and listen to music; buy a sex positions guidebook if you’re game, and laugh as you try new positions in different rooms. Start slow and see how far you go.
After a few years together, it’s easy to get lazy in bed. But you both deserve better. You have to put in an effort to increase your sexual energy.
Create the perfect atmosphere so that she just can’t resist you. Set the mood for a romantic evening, light candles, set the tone with her favorite songs, pamper her with chocolates and wine.
Research shows that new and adventurous activities stimulates the brain to produce dopa mine, a neurotransmitter that plays a key role in sexual desire. Experiencing something new and exhilarating together outside the bedroom and dopa mine levels may skyrocket — along with your sex drive.
Take that adventurous spirit inside the bedroom as well. Use whipped cream on her or chocolate syrup. Surprise her with this and you will get the reward.
Schedule your sex life.
Often the idea of scheduling sex is met by resistance from one or both spouses in a marriage. The common thinking being that scheduling sex isn’t spontaneous or romantic. However, scheduling your lovemaking gives it a sense of priority.
It also gives you time to prepare. Many self-conscious women don’t want to have sex because they find themselves un-attractive. When there is sex on the books, she can look forward to getting ready for the big night, shave, get into that sexy lingerie and get out of her “mommy mode.”
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