Open Communication for an Effective Sex Life – A good sex life is the need and desire of every man and woman. However, it is quite important that you are able to effectively communicate with your partner about your sex wants and needs. If you both are not able to talk openly and freely about sex, forget about a good sex life, you may face problems having intercourse.
To freely be able to tell your partner what both of you want from your sex life, communicate about sex, how often you like to have in a week, what are your dirty and naught fantasies you always wanted to do. If there is or are any things in particular you want your partner to do with you while having sex. Foul play is also a very important aspect of a good sex life. Tell him or her your desire, how you like to do that.
Don’t just keep fantasizing about what you would want to do with your partner in bed, tell him/her.
Tell your partner which part of the body you like the most when he kisses you and vice versa for men.
If you are crazy about giving love bites to your partner, don’t forget to tell him.
If you like to use adults products while having intercourse, such as penis enlargement pump or female sex toys, you can tell your partner and enjoy the ultimate loving experience.
If you want your lady love to get really naughty at times, tell her that the sexy dress just excites you. Believe me she will get ready to all excite you and wear her favorite piece of lingerie.
An open communication is seen while having sex not only in bed, but also when the two of you are actively talking about your physical act on phone, yes we are talking about phone sex. You can also excite your partner over call by telling what you are wearing and where all you want to touch her or him. The fun can create goosebumps.
Yes, sex talk on phone with your partner sometimes can be really a great way to spice up the romance in your relationship. Once a while, couples like to talk dirty on phone with their partners. During the sex talk, you can also make use of sex toys like female vibrators and other male sex toys to get complete satisfaction and to arise those feelings.
Sexting is a new way of having dirty talk over messages. Another exciting way to open your channel of communication with your partner about sex is by sending sex messages and discussing about it through SMS. So make your partner go all bananas by sharing something crazy and naughty with him.
Be passionate when you make love with your partner along with having an open communication. This will show your partner how you care about her or him even in bed.
Aditi
Aditi is a student of women sexology. Her reaserach subject is "Premature Ejaculation in Indian Men & Sexually Starved Indian Women". She writes blogs for sexual education. Her focus always is "Sexual Emancipation of Indian Women - Why Go Hungry".
